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Social comparison

We evaluate ourselves by comparing with others.

Festinger (1954), A Theory of Social Comparison Processes.

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What is Social comparison?

Social comparison is a behavioural bias (social family): we evaluate ourselves by comparing with others. Leaderboards and "you're ahead of 80% of users" messages. Nudgeswipe rates the evidence as strong. Source: Festinger (1954), A Theory of Social Comparison Processes.

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The research

Leaderboards and "you're ahead of 80% of users" messages.

● Strong evidence (provisional)

Provisional rating: we cite only the original paper so far. It stays provisional until a replication or meta-analysis is added.

Source: doi.org/10.1177/001872675400700202

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Key takeaways

  1. Honest nudge

    Compare with personal progress or helpful peers.

  2. Dark-pattern line

    Comparisons designed to make people feel inadequate.

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Frequently asked questions

What is Social comparison?

Social comparison is a behavioural bias: we evaluate ourselves by comparing with others.

How does Social comparison work?

Leaderboards and "you're ahead of 80% of users" messages.

How strong is the evidence for Social comparison?

Nudgeswipe rates it strong evidence (provisional). Original source: Festinger (1954), A Theory of Social Comparison Processes.

How can you use Social comparison honestly?

Compare with personal progress or helpful peers.

When does Social comparison become a dark pattern?

Comparisons designed to make people feel inadequate.

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